Find a Cougar

I got a question from a budding cub: he wanted to know where, other than the 5-6 of six bars I listed last year, was the best place to 'bump into' a cougar.
 
I shall share with you what I told him - most Cougars tend to work hard during the day - hence the best place to meet them is when they are out on the prowl. The other thing is you shouldn't be afraid to approach them - some of them just need an indication from you that you are open to the approach, even if it is just giving them the few occasional looks and smiles, which gives them the confidence to start up a conversation.

Once I was at a bar and found everytime I went up for a drink the same young guy was standing next to me, talking and smiling, and I never would have approached him otherwise because he was with a gang of young guys. But he made an effort to make it easy for me to talk to him and that was what got everything started.

As for online, you need only put 'age doesn't matter to me' in your profile and suddenly you should get a heap of messages from women who thought they might not otherwise approach you. This is basically guaranteed to get you laid by a Cougar.

Things with Superman have taken a clarifying turn; turns out he is very much in lust with a girl who he can’t have. This sorts me wondering if we could be more than f**k buddies, but the way our situation is at the moment suits me just fine. I tell ya, the boy just improves in leaps and bounds. I am wondering when he will be better than any cub I have slept with before, it can’t be far away now! Kudos to him.

But he still kisses me on the cheek when we say goodbye. I guess I can't ask for everything to be great, can I?